Bawku Assembly members grants youth’s request, reject president nominee

By Joseph Osei

Assembly members in Bawku have voted to reject the president’s nominee for the position of Municipal Chief Executive of Bawku. 19 out of the 28 assembly members voted against Adam Karimu.

Prior to the election, Security was beefed up at the premises of the Bawku Municipal Assembly following threats by some NDC youth there, to attack the assembly members if they confirm the President’s nominee The youth have not been happy about the nomination of Amadu Karimu for the position describing him as a stranger to the NDC. They have accused the Minister for Information and Media Relations, Mahama Ayariga, who is also the MP for the area, of lobbying  for Adamu Karimu to be nominated. In what turn out to be granting the request of the youth, 19 out of the 28 Assembly members voted against the nominee.

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Bawku Municipal goes to confirm MCE under heavy security.

By Joseph Osei

Security has been beefed up at the premises of the Bawku Municipal Assembly following threats by some NDC youth there, to attack the assembly members if they confirm the President’s nominee for the Municipal Chief Executive position. The youth have not been happy about the nomination of Amadu Karimu for the position describing him as a stranger to the NDC. They have accused the Minister for Information and Media Relations, Mahama Ayariga, who is also the MP for the area, of imposing his favourite on them. Today, the assembly members will vote to confirm or reject Mr. Karimu’s nomination for the position. Presiding member of the Assembly, David Doliba, says members do not feel threatened because of the security arrangement made so far.

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More than 38 teenage female students in the northern region pregnant.

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By Joseph Osei

More than 38 teenage female students in the Karaga District are pregnant in the northern region; the situation is said to hampering the effort made at improving girl child education in the northern part of the country.

According to Fuseini Zakaria Ziblim, Karaga District Chairman of the Ghana National Association of Teachers the district recently recorded 25 pregnancies among Senior High School (SHS) female students, while the Junior High Schools recorded 7 pregnancies with 6 other pregnant pupils coming from the primary schools.

She said a survey conducted by her outfit revealed that many communities in the district practiced forced marriages, betrothal, exchange and other outmoded forms of marriages, which undermined female education in the area. 

 

Another flood destroys farms and buildings in East Mamprusi

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As the victims of heavy flood in bunkrugu yo-yo receive relief items from the National Disaster Management Organization, the west Mamprusi District also in the northern region has also been flooded by continuous rainfall which has lasted for three days. About 1,685 acre of farms and 60 houses have been destroyed living many of the residents displaced. The District Chief Executive of the area Adams Imoro blames the protracted flooding of the area on the closeness of buildings and farms to rivers in the

Calm returns to Kona after five people sustained gunshot wounds in a chieftaincy conflict

BY JOSEPH OSEI

Calm is said to have return to Kona in the Sekyere South District of the Ashanti Region after five people sustained gunshot wounds in a chieftaincy conflict in the area. The queen mother of the town Nana Afua Abebrese Agyemang is said to have attempted to instool her son as the chief of Kona. The move met serious disapproval by the township which resulted in a clash. The residents accused a joint military and police from the Buffalo Unit as being behind the gun shots.

According to the District Chief Executive of Sekyere South Edward Ayarkwa, calm has since return to the town and the district Security Council will meet to find a solution to the chieftaincy disputes.

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My Advice To Married Couples After Divorcing My Wife Of 16 Years By Gerald Rogers.

ImageObviously, I’m not a relationship expert. But there’s something about my divorce being finalized this week that gives me perspective of things I wish I would have done different… After losing a woman that I loved, and a marriage of almost 16 years, here’s the advice I wish I would have had

1. Never stop courting. Never stop dating. NEVER EVER take that woman for granted. When you asked her to marry you, you promised to be that man that would OWN HER HEART and to fiercely protect it. This is the most important and sacred treasure you will ever be entrusted with. SHE CHOSE YOU. Never forget that, and NEVER GET LAZY in your love.

2. Protect your own heart. Just as you committed to being the protector of her heart, you must guard your own with the same vigilance. Love yourself fully, love the world openly, but there is a special place in your heart where no one must enter except for your wife. Keep that space always ready to receive her and invite her in, and refuse to let anyone or anything else enter there.

3. Fall in love over and over again. You will constantly change. You’re not the same people you were when you got married, and in five years you will not be the same person you are today. Change will come, and in that you have to re-choose each other everyday. SHE DOESN’T HAVE TO STAY WITH YOU, and if you don’t take care of her heart, she may give that heart to someone else or seal you out completely, and you may never be able to get it back. Always fight to win her love just as you did when you were courting her.

4. Always see the best in her. Focus only on what you love. What you focus on will expand. If you focus on what bugs you, all you will see is reasons to be bugged. If you focus on what you love, you can’t help but be consumed by love. Focus to the point where you can no longer see anything but love, and you know without a doubt that you are the luckiest man on earth to be have this woman as your wife.

5. It’s not your job to change or fix her… your job is to love her as she is with no expectation of her ever changing. And if she changes, love what she becomes, whether it’s what you wanted or not.

6. Take full accountability for your own emotions: It’s not your wife’s job to make you happy, and she CAN’T make you sad. You are responsible for finding your own happiness, and through that your joy will spill over into your relationship and your love.

7. Never blame your wife if you get frustrated or angry at her, it is only because it is triggering something inside of YOU. They are YOUR emotions, and your responsibility. When you feel those feelings take time to get present and to look within and understand what it is inside of YOU that is asking to be healed. You were attracted to this woman because she was the person best suited to trigger all of your childhood wounds in the most painful way so that you could heal them… when you heal yourself, you will no longer be triggered by her, and you will wonder why you ever were.

8. Allow your woman to just be. When she’s sad or upset, it’s not your job to fix it, it’s your job to HOLD HER and let her know it’s ok. Let her know that you hear her, and that she’s important and that you are that pillar on which she can always lean. The feminine spirit is about change and emotion and like a storm her emotions will roll in and out, and as you remain strong and unjudging she will trust you and open her soul to you… DON’T RUN-AWAY WHEN SHE’S UPSET. Stand present and strong and let her know you aren’t going anywhere. Listen to what she is really saying behind the words and emotion.

9. Be silly… don’t take yourself so damn seriously. Laugh. And make her laugh. Laughter makes everything else easier.

10. Fill her soul everyday… learn her love languages and the specific ways that she feels important and validated and CHERISHED. Ask her to create a list of 10 THINGS that make her feel loved and memorize those things and make it a priority everyday to make her feel like a queen.

11. Be present. Give her not only your time, but your focus, your attention and your soul. Do whatever it takes to clear your head so that when you are with her you are fully WITH HER. Treat her as you would your most valuable client. She is.

12. Be willing to take her sexually, to carry her away in the power of your masculine presence, to consume her and devour her with your strength, and to penetrate her to the deepest levels of her soul. Let her melt into her feminine softness as she knows she can trust you fully.

13. Don’t be an idiot…. And don’t be afraid of being one either. You will make mistakes and so will she. Try not to make too big of mistakes, and learn from the ones you do make. You’re not supposed to be perfect, just try to not be too stupid.

14. Give her space… The woman is so good at giving and giving, and sometimes she will need to be reminded to take time to nurture herself. Sometimes she will need to fly from your branches to go and find what feeds her soul, and if you give her that space she will come back with new songs to sing…. (okay, getting a little too poetic here, but you get the point. Tell her to take time for herself, ESPECIALLY after you have kids. She needs that space to renew and get re-centered, and to find herself after she gets lost in serving you, the kids and the world.)

15. Be vulnerable… you don’t have to have it all together. Be willing to share your fears and feelings, and quick to acknowledge your mistakes.

16. Be fully transparent. If you want to have trust you must be willing to share EVERYTHING… Especially those things you don’t want to share. It takes courage to fully love, to fully open your heart and let her in when you don’t know i she will like what she finds… Part of that courage is allowing her to love you completely, your darkness as well as your light. DROP THE MASK… If you feel like you need to wear a mask around her, and show up perfect all the time, you will never experience the full dimension of what love can be.

17. Never stop growing together… The stagnant pond breeds malaria, the flowing stream is always fresh and cool. Atrophy is the natural process when you stop working a muscle, just as it is if you stop working on your relationship. Find common goals, dreams and visions to work towards.

18. Don’t worry about money. Money is a game, find ways to work together as a team to win it. It never helps when teammates fight. Figure out ways to leverage both persons strength to win.

19. Forgive immediately and focus on the future rather than carrying weight from the past. Don’t let your history hold you hostage. Holding onto past mistakes that either you or she makes, is like a heavy anchor to your marriage and will hold you back. FORGIVENESS IS FREEDOM. Cut the anchor loose and always choose love.

20. Always choose love. ALWAYS CHOOSE LOVE. In the end, this is the only advice you need. If this is the guiding principle through which all your choices is governed, there is nothing that will threaten the happiness of your marriage. Love will always endure.

In the end marriage isn’t about happily ever after. It’s about work. And a commitment to grow together and a willingness to continually invest in creating something that can endure eternity. Through that work, the happiness will come. Marriage is life, and it will bring ups and downs. Embracing all of the cycles and learning to learn from and love each experience will bring the strength and perspective to keep building, one brick at a time.

These are lessons I learned the hard way. These are lessons I learned too late. But these are lessons I am learning and committed in carrying forward. Truth is, I loved being married, and in time, I will get married again, and when I do, I will build it with a foundation that will endure any storm and any amount of time.

If you are reading this and find wisdom in my pain, share it those those young husbands whose hearts are still full of hope, and with those couples you may know who may have forgotten how to love. One of those men may be like I was, and in these hard earned lessons perhaps something will awaken in him and he will learn to be the man his lady has been waiting for.

MEN- THIS IS YOUR CHARGE: Commit to being an EPIC LOVER. There is no greater challenge, and no greater prize. Your woman deserves that from. Be the type of husband your wife can’t help but brag about.

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One person is said to have died and a number of people hospitalized from the consumption of a herbal mixture

 

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Joseph Osei

One person is said to have died and a number of people hospitalized from the consumption of a herbal mixture at Agrosum in the Amansie East district in the Ashanti region. According to the Food and Drug Authority the herbal mixture which is circulating with the name HWEHWE NYAME TYPHOID MIXTURE in the region is produced by one Dr. Adade with fake FDA number FDB/4D 069119. The medicine is indicated to cure Typhoid, malaria, fever and body pains.

According to the Ashanti Regional director of the FDA Vigil Prah-Ashun, the medicine has not been tested or given an approval by the FDA.

The spirit child phenomenon and the catholic side of life

 

“It happened within our house, our family and within our community so I have witnessed it several times. And when that type of child dies, they don’t use a proper thing to carry him for the burial, they will take a rough mat and put the child there and hold it just like anything and go and throw it away. They normally don’t take the baby to the hill alive. They will use something like a stone, stick, or a cutlass to hit the child and kill him”
 
The spirit child phenomenon and the catholic side of life
By Joseph osei
The spirit child phenomenon started in some part of the upper east region in the northern part of Ghana, in 1975, is a culture practice whereby children born with disabilities or whose birth coincide with a tragic incident in the family, such as the loss of a parent.
“To witness the birth of a child is the best opportunity to experience.”- paul cavel
 The practice is common in sirigu in the Kassena Nankana West district of the upper east region, it takes about 45 minutes to drive from Bolgatanga to Sirigu and it’s not easy. The road is barely passable.
 If the child is born with deformities, the child is killed.

Such babies are called spirit children and are thought to be bad omen. For the community, is considered blasphemous and a curse by the gods and for that matter the unfortunate creature must return.

The first time I heard this story, I could hardly believe it. I’ve always lived in a community where great merry-making accompanies childbirth, no matter the condition of the baby or the mother.

So at first I didn’t pay too much attention to the story.

I meet the assemblyman for the sirigu area, Azokulgu Azotipelba, and he makes a shocking admission. “Culture is like a colanut it last in the mouth of those who value it”

{They put the child on the hill and put plenty rocks on the child, the babies in they are not considered ‘real’ human beings by their families. They have been cast out as evil spirits… either because they were born physically deformed or their mothers died during childbirth. And, according to an ancient cultural practice that survives in this area the babies must die to save the families from evil.}
Trying to understand innocent blood being shed in the name of culture, I talk with an elder in the town, John Ayamaga. He takes time as he explains.
{when you give birth and the mother dies instantly, the myth is that it is the baby that has killed the mother so the child must also go so when there is no intervention, the baby is sent to the hill there for that rituals. If the child is born with some deformities either with some teeth or some of the hair being white, that child is termed a spirit child and that baby is not accepted in that community. We have a very big hill; they take them there and put a stone on that spirit child so that it will not get up again. The family will not fail to do that because they think if that baby has killed the mother, it can kill the rest of the family.}
One day something happened………….
My entire body is shaking. My mouth is wide open and I’m close to tears as I visualize the events the Assemblyman and this Elder is describing.

A stubborn woman, Akolpoka Ateni refused to let her child to be taken to the shrine, although the husband, Akolgo Akundikiya has given the permission. She run away with her baby boy who was supposed to be killed because he had one arm when he was born.
{At times the children will grow up to 10 or 15 years and they will still manage and go and kill that particular child. If a baby like this escape, the whole family and the entire community will come out and go and search and kill that baby. Because it is a culture for that community and the whole community believes that whatever the soothsayer says is for all so they have no reason to defy it.}
 Akolgbila Akundikiya now Francis Ayinbotima (meaning God loves me) was the boy Who narrowly escaped death, Francis mother’s action changed negative culture practice, Francis works with Afrikids in Uk and has establish a number of works in the upper east region.
I listen carefully to the stories of the people who have seen this horror first hand. I try to put myself in their shoes, to understand the fear and ignorance that leads to the slaughter of innocent children.

Francis mother with the help of the Catholic Church and Afrikids Ghana changed bad practices in a society; Francis told me how helpful the Catholic Church has been to him and his late mother who saved him from being gruesomely killed.

I believe Francis mother took inspiration from this famous quote.
“Birth is not only about making babies. Birth is about making mothers strong, competent, capable mothers who trust themselves and know their inner strength” – Barbara Kartz Rothman.
 
As I speak to Francis, I can see how gratitude he is; joy has over filled his soul. “Time will not permit me to tell you the full story about what my mother went through when she runs with me”
The Catholic Church is into spiritual and physical development of the individual and we focused on societal changeThe late, Most Rev. Lucas Abadamloora, Bishops of Navrongo-Bolgatanga diocese
The Catholic Church has helped to stop the practice whereby innocent children were killed,
After listening to the story of Francis, which for time sake I can’t put all in black and white, I decided to visit the sirigu, again to see the Catholic Church’s contribution.
I finally reach Sirigu.
{Some come healthy, some come sick, some almost dying.}

At the Mother of Mercy Babies Home in Sirigu a Catholic Sister, a caretaker and a community leader are in front of the fading, brown iron gate of the home to welcome us.

I look at the children and wonder what stories they would tell if they could find the words and exchange it with me.

There are 16 babies in this 26-year-old home and the youngest is only two months old.

Francis started from this home, and as I entered and in the faces of these children I remember how Francis was saved
The caretakers tell me the babies in the home are not considered ‘real’ human beings by their families. They have been cast out as evil spirits… either because they were born physically deformed or their mothers died during childbirth. And, according to an ancient cultural practice that survives in this area the babies must die to save the families from evil.

In some situations there were strange events at the time of their birth. All of the children except one, are motherless.

The caretaker, Sister Innocent Depor tells me how some of the children are rescued by the Catholic Church and arrive on their doorstep.

{Because of the education, family members of the babies bring them themselves. The moment they get to know that the child can be termed a spirit child, they rush them here. So come very hefty, sick and weak.}

The catholic has establish orphanage to save these children and the local community has started taking advantage of the facility, bringing children who are not endangered but merely because they cannot afford to raise them.

{It was before that they don’t want the children that they always want to kill. But now with the education, they want their children but how to take care of them, very tiny, they prefer to bring the children here so that after three years when they can eat anything then they come for their child. When they bring the babies we always tell them not to come and throw the babies here like that. They should always visit them. And when they are bringing the babies, here, each child with a caretaker so that when the baby is discharged, he will have somebody he is familiar with. He will not feel like a stranger in somebody’s house.}

Poor people from the surrounding villages, outside Sirigu, have heard about the home and now bring their babies here because they are struggling to make ends meet.

One child was recently brought from Bongo, a town in the Upper East Region. Little Marilyn as they’ve named her is only a month old but motherless.

She is fortunate to have been spotted and saved by Hajia Mary Issaka, a midwife in-charge of the Anafubisi health center.

{Last week Friday we went to a community to run a clinic then we saw a pregnant woman holding this baby at the outreach point then we ask of the mother and she said the mother died at Bolga hospital. We ask what they were given and they told us that some people came to the funeral and donated some money and bought some lactogen and they are giving to the baby. So when we saw her, we knew that they cannot take care of the baby in the house so I sent this nurse to go the house and meet the community members and speak to the people about this orphanage. If they agree, we will arrange and bring the baby to Sirigu and they agreed.}

But little Marilyn is one of the more fortunate, like francis

Everywhere I go in this town people have stories about baby killing that make my blood run cold.

{there are certain things they don’t even want to mention it. There was a community like that when a woman died after delivery and they gave the baby to another woman who died when there was an outbreak of CSM. And they are saying that it is the baby that has killed both the mother and the caretaker so they brought the baby out and knock the child on the tree and it died. So some of these things they are silent}.

The services of the Sirigu home is made possible by the catholic church and donations from foreign NGO’s like Friends of African Babies (FAB), based in the region.

Mary Kaglan is from Ireland and a member of the NGO. She tells me what motivated her organization help the home.

{I think it was to see these sisters working so hard looking after so many babies thus the least we could do as we live in the area and that any help we could give them would be a bonus. The sisters of course take very good care of the babies so it is not that the case that the babies are looking after. But I think it is that people would be aware there is a home in Sirigu so people can visit and assist with the little they have}

But even with the assistance of the FAB NGO, sister Innocentia Apor and the staff here struggle to raise these children.

 

TO BE CONTINUED…………. on catholic role in stopping children been killed and full story about Francis and others who escaped death also the medical explanation of children born with disabilities

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